Thank YOU. And see D. Geiger's interesting comment above. For many of us these places are great answers. I count my blessings every day. And could never have cared for my husband without this good place; I was able to do that for 6 good years. I'm also really, really happy here and have NO plans to move until I go out in a little box of ashes.

Still, I hate the system that has such huge money to be made on voiceless seniors.

Good luck with it all!!