Guilt is so yesterday. At this point I vote for your just doing whatever feels good to you. These are some great arguments for getting one's affairs -- including end-of-life choices -- written down and discussed!

I was incredibly lucky to have three older sisters, all wonderful. Lost the last of them early this year & I miss them all. But some had issues with each other. My niece, the youngest of 4 girls, and I often say that if everyone could just be the youngest of four girls we would have world peace. 😊

Thanks for this good piece!